by Gillian Armour
As image consultants we are tasked daily with providing solutions for our clients. This week’s post is based on a request we received about dressing to attract a significant other.
We had a lot to say to the client (some of which is offered here for you to read) but the basic advice is this - what you attract is based on how you look – if you want Mr Sloppy then dress sloppy, if you want Mr Gorgeous, then be gorgeous!
First impressions count
When you meet a new colleague who can’t knot his tie correctly and wears his shirt untucked, you think, ‘This guy’s sloppy. I bet his work is like that too’ rather than, ‘This guy’s clearly a hard worker.’ Making a good impression at all times is hard work, but it will pay off. You never know who you might meet during the course of the day. If you’ve recently been looking for Mr Right, it’s time to step up your attraction quotient.
Here are some tips to ensure that you look good every single day.
Think about your work wardrobe
You spend over 40 hours a week in the workplace. That’s a significant part of your life, and one not to be forgotten when trying to impress. Although your working life may be dull, you never know who you might meet. Give your work wardrobe a thorough examination. Is your knitwear starting to pill? Are your trousers looking a little worn? Are your clothes predominantly black, gray and white? Treating yourself to a quality work wardrobe won’t be wasted. Buy trousers and skirts that fit your proportions. Team basic items with colourful, and interesting accessories such as bright, fashion necklaces and bracelets. Your sophisticated look will not only set you apart from the rest, but it will also make you feel more confident.
Save the workout wear for the gym
The athleisure trend may seem tempting but lycra and sweatpants do not belong anywhere but the gym. Don’t be tempted to pull on gym-wear just because you’re popping out to the grocery store. It’s perfectly acceptable to wear casual clothing to run errands, but make sure that the clothing says something about you. A pair of jeans and retro sneakers looks effortlessly cool whilst being comfortable. If you do catch the attention of a handsome guy, he’s much more likely to engage in conversation with you if you don’t look like you’ve just been to the gym.
Enhance your beauty
Although some women enjoy wearing heavy make-up, not all women are the same. And, heavy makeup can scare a guy. Think of cosmetics as a tool to enhance your natural beauty and not something to hide imperfections. If you do nothing else, make sure that you wear a little mascara every day. Applying mascara will make your lashes look longer and deeper and draw attention to your eyes. If you feel confident wearing cosmetics, also apply a little blush. It will brighten your whole face which can have the added effect of making you look friendly and approachable. It’s also important to remember to not neglect your skincare routine. Cleansed, toned and moisturized skin will glow throughout the day.
Have your cut and styled
The one thing you wear every single day is your hairstyle. Don’t be afraid to pay a good stylist top dollar to give you an excellent cut. A talented stylist will cut your hair to suit your face shape and your lifestyle. No one wants to spend hours fixing up their hair in the morning, but hair that’s cut well from the start will be easier to style. Don’t be tempted to wear your hair in a ponytail every day. Mix it up a little and you’ll soon notice the new male attention coming your way.
Keep your evening wardrobe separate
It’s more difficult to ‘wow’ men when dressed in your work and casual wear than evening wear. If you meet a guy you’ve had your eye on while out with the girls, he’s going to be less impressed if he’s seen you in that dress at work many times before. Keep your evening wardrobe separate from your day-to-day wardrobe to ensure that your clothes give the maximum effect.
When dressing for the evening, it’s important to remember not to mix a low-cut neckline with a short hem if you want to make the right impression. As with your work wear, make sure that you liven up neutral suit and dress colors with bright accessories. You want to stand out and not fade into the background.
Dressing to impress needn’t be hard work. A few changes in habits and wardrobe will ensure that you look your very best at all times. You never know when you might bump into the perfect guy, so make sure that you’re always looking and feeling fabulous. Remember – you attract what you dress for.